You Betta Say That!!!

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I was feeling some type of way last week & one of my Facebook friends posted this. I would be remiss if I didn't share it with you lovelies here. Enjoy!   Post by Anthony Green. If you can't see the video click here
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Single vs. Solitary

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This single life... Boy I tell ya! Can you say roller coaster ride?! That's why I titled this post as such because sometimes being single is a badge of honor, other times it feels like an undetermined sentence to solitary confinement!   Is being single easy? HELL NO!! I'll be the FIRST to tell you that! lol! Especially those solitary moments... & a sista's celibate at the same time!! Whoo!! From K.Michelle's latest mixtape making me hate every man except my daddy, to the old school love songs on repeat on the radio (as I'm typing this Boys II Men is crooning "End Of The Road" in my earbuds), to muscly rippling physiques on IG... & steamy tv romance like MJ & Andre [Being Mary Jane]... yeah, the struggle is…
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Well, potentially…

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I didn't wanna bum anybody out with this yesterday since it was Valentine's Day & all but I gotta get this off my chest. So here goes! Idk about you but I'm so fed up with dating someones potential. Don't know what I'm talking about? That's when you're with someone that's below your "list", your requirements in a man because he has THE POTENTIAL to be that man you want. You probably even convinced yourself that the reason he hasn't reached that potential is because he hasn't met the right woman to motivate him & believe in him & blah blah blah. No offense boo boo, but if the last chick couldn't do it, what makes your "purse", as Tamar says, so special?! It ain't an easy pill to swallow…
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“Love Song” Video Premiere

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It's the weekend of love & #Classof1987 has a treat for all the music lovers to enjoy! "I am humbled and yet very proud to present to you... YES YOU!  Step 1 in the pursuit of my lifelong dream. This is my first video based on my first single as a solo artist and I want to showcase this milestone in a big way! Thanks to the mastermind behind Artificial Intelligents, Mizzery Jones (Shaun Green), and creativity captain of capturing real life on camera, Darius Peterson of 3 Digital Rock Studios, I have a complete body of work that I can display anywhere with confidence that it can compete in any arena! "Love Song" is special to me; and because of the content of the song and nature of the video, I felt that Valentine’s Day weekend would…
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A Black And Sexy Valentine!!!

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Need plans for Valentine's Day? Be Our Valentine! We are having a Hello Cupid & Roomieloverfriends Double Feature Screening on Valentines Day! This event will be hosted by the Men of Black&SexyTV!   [youtube http://youtu.be/aRfX60sKocM]   Andra Fuller, Austen Jaye, Desmond Faison, Jeremy Mcbryde & Will Catlett!    We will serve dinner and screen: Season 2 Premiere of Hello Cupid & the Season 2 Finale of Roomieloverfriends! Also enjoy photos with your favorite stars and flowers for the ladies! $15 for Single & Sexy and $20 for couples in any configuration arriving together. It's going to be a great night.  Join us in Los Angeles. See you there on Valentines Day 7pm SHARP.   Purchase Advance Tickets NOW as seating is VERY limited.  Last Day to Purchase 2/12   http://bit.ly/hellocupidparty Not in LA?  Don't fret. The Hello Cupid…
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The Couple Heads to HBO!!!

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I was prowling through my email & noticed this jewel! THE COUPLE GOES TO HBO...   Our vision for Black&Sexy TV has always been to nurture the audience that loved our work as filmmakers and create a full slate of original programming that spoke to their sensibilities and our standards.  That is why it is so fitting that Jet Magazine reported the exciting announcement that we have entered a development deal at HBO for The Couple to cross to the TV platform.  We can also confirm that Spike Lee has come on board as an executive producer. This type of partnership grants a greater recognizability for the network and opens up other creative collaborations that keep us moving towards becoming a household name. BLACK&SEXY PAY-PER VIEW.... While we were in discussions with…
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Is Your Relationship Toxic?

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I was perusing Facebook, came across this article & had to share it with you guys! You may not like his honesty but before you get in your feelings realize you might be upset because he's talking about YOU! Article from Mark Manson 6 Toxic Relationship Habits Most People Think Are Normal There’s no class in high school on how to not be a shitty boyfriend or girlfriend. Sure, they teach us the biology of sex, the legality of marriage, and maybe read a few obscure love stories from the 19th century on how not to be. But when it comes down to actually handling the nitty-gritty of relationships, we’re given no pointers… or worse, we’re given advice columns in women’s magazines. Yes, it’s trial-and-error from the get-go. And if…
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Are you afraid of heartbreak?

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contributed by Nique You may look at that question and say, “Hell yeah, who wants their heart to be broken?” Of course no one does. But I’m not asking if you LIKE your heart being broken. I’m asking if you’re afraid of it. Are you passing up guys/girls because you suspect that the only inevitable conclusion with this person is heartbreak? Are you ending relationships too quick because you think there is no way things will ever get better and a quick escape is the best escape? Are you sticking to your significant other like white on rice because you feel like as soon as you let that person out of your sight, they will surprisingly become the clumsiest person in the world and then miraculously trip and fall “into”…
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Taking a Chance

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contributed by Kaydee We all know the nervous feeling we get when were close to the one we have strong feelings for. The situation can almost be nerve wrecking because of some many conflicting feelings. On one hand you really like this guy/girl but on the other hand you don’t want to get hurt. Past relationships have taught you to stay alert and guarded. To stay cold and stiff when it comes to love. Sad huh? But that is exactly the harsh reality of today’s dating scene. Somewhere down the line the guy you thought would never break your heart did exactly that. The girl that you tried so hard to make your own turned on you in a flash and now you’re screaming “These b*tches ain’t s*it”. Sad huh?…
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Is your wardrobe why you’re SINGLE?

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9 Summer Trends Men Hate (And How Your Wardrobe Is Keeping You Single!) We all know that men love short skirts and dresses – and thus summertime is their favorite season – but what warm weather trends do they actually despise? Sure, gladiator sandals and one-piece swimsuits are an obvious choice, but what else about this season and how women dress in it is a major turn off for men? (This story is for you single ladies out there, so please read closely! lets us peek inside the minds of men–for better or for more likely, worse!). We took a poll of SHEfinds staffers’ boyfriends, husbands, guy friends and strangers on the streets to find out what trends men hate (and more importantly – why) to get some insight. Note: the opinions expressed by chauvinists in…
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HELLO CUPID!!

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Ever used online dating? Ever thought about it? Ever get tired of being single? Then this one's for you! lol! Y'all know I love me some Black & Sexy TV & they're BACK!!! This time they're giving us a new series called Hello Cupid about two friends & their online dating adventures. Here's episode one [youtube http://youtu.be/t0eHcbez_LU] I think the episode was waaaaay too short but it was just long enough to have me eating out of their hands!!! Next episode airs 3/17 & Black & Sexy TV drops new videos every Sunday!!! Subscribe & don't miss a thing! Also follow them @blackandsexytv
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