Apr112011 by Blondie's Staff1 Comment

“Your life can be under construction and still be a marvel to behold”

Pinks
As a society as a whole, we are selfish by nature. We expect perfection, but we deliver mediocrity. We ask for flawlessness, but we are never without our own flaws. We place boundaries and set standards on others that we, ourselves, cannot meet, but yet we ridicule those that fall below. But we never take the time to look in the mirror. Truly look in it and see ourselves for what we are. And for those that do, most don’t like what they see. If any obstacles, or problems, or issues arise in our lives, we take a hiatus on living.  We take a break, using precious time that can never be given back, and use excuses that justify our actions. You’ve heard it before; “I need time to get…
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Apr112011 by Blondie's Staff2 Comments

Dear Bentley

Pinks
Relationships One to ManyIn A Trance“Find a guy who calls you beautiful instead of hot, who calls you back when you hang up on him, who will lie under the stars and listen to your heartbeat, or will stay awake just to watch you sleep... wait for the boy who kisses your forehead, who wants to show you off to the world when you are in sweats, who holds your hand in front of his friends, who thinks you're just as pretty without makeup on. One who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares and how lucky his is to have you.... The one who turns to his friends and says, 'that's her.'' A trance that only two lovers can experience.When a woman finds that guy that makes…
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Apr112011 by Blondie's Staff2 Comments

Fantasy

Pinks
It’s a random Sunday morning and we’re wrapped around each otherA tangle of limbs in a California King size bedAll the room in the world…… All the space we need…….But the distance is not a luxury that we want to take advantage of right nowI can hear his heart beating And I notice that mine is beating in tune with hisThis causes me to smile…My eyes are closedHands are caressing skinSkin is caressing skinAnd we can just………beAfter a moment we may talkAbout everything and nothing at the same timeIt’s sensual and real and passionateLike were making love with our words…….The best kind of foreplayMost of the time we just listen to each other breatheAnd are comforted in the simple pleasure of sharing something so pure, so trivialOn this random day,…
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Apr112011 by Blondie's Staff2 Comments

Weight Loss Failures and Success: Part V

Neutrals
Hey yall!! I am so close to my weight loss goal I can taste it! Here are this week's tips to losing weight the healthy way and keeping those unwanted pounds off for good. Again, these are things that I have done and they have worked wonderfully for me this past year. I know it is not going to be easy, but if you can begin to implement these changes into your lifestyle, I promise you will begin to notice the results. 1.) Drink at least 6-8 8oz. cups of water a day. I recommend getting a container that holds 32oz and striving to drink one a day and eventually work your way up to two a day. A lot of times our bodies mistake thirstiness for hunger and that causes…
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Mar282011 by Blondie's Staff2 Comments

Life as the RB: Wisdom, Courage and the Drive to Move forward (Finale)

Plums
The road to self-fulfillment, after a relationship, may take months to get to. The RB can’t give up.  Be prepared to hit the bumps, and pot holes that lie ahead on the journey.  The road to recovery is going to test your strength and your ability to handle complex situations.  These of which are essential qualities needed in order to fully gain the most of the next relationship.At this point, strength has been tested due to the RB being in this stage. That’s the hardest part. When you’ve realized that you exhibit SB qualities and desire to move on you’ll go through the necessary steps in order to come out on top. That’s strength. The ability to endure things that can make or break you. Welcoming these tactics to recovery…
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Mar282011 by Blondie's StaffNo Comments

Worth

Pinks
I'm worth it.....You treat me as if you're the prizeBut don't be mistaken,I'm the treasure.I'm the gold and the diamonds and the riches that you can only dream to possessI can walk circles around you on your best dayAll before even opening my eyes in the morningYou say I should be proud to be on your arm?The way I see it, your arm is only worth it if I'm on it......You say I should be happy to be in your presence?Your presence only makes sense if I'm next to you....You clearly misinterpret the heads that turn when we enter a roomBecause I guarantee you, if I step away from your side, the heads that turned will turn in my directionYou think I need you in my life?The greatest gift you…
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Mar282011 by Blondie's Staff2 Comments

What does your smile say?

Pinks
“I like him because he smiles at me and means it”      –AnonymousSuch a simple quote. It’s very simplistic in its words but full of meaning. Most of us, can tell the difference between a fake smile and a real smile from our significant others’. Hopefully, we care about them enough to inquire about the fake ones. But having someone smile at you, and you catch the millions of meanings that their smiles convey is a treasure not found by many. Imagine yourself sitting in a room with your significant other on a random Sunday morning. You’re both enthralled in different things at the moment. But then you happen to glance up at the same time and he doesn’t say anything but smile. The smile only lasts for a second and…
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Mar282011 by Blondie's Staff2 Comments

Dreaming

Pinks
Imagine and image of the imaginary mindFocus on an unfocused dreamTell a story that was told twice overAnd bound a bond worth a bundle; and you’ll find meStill where you left me the first day you met meOf maybe it’s reversedYou’re worth every memoryAnd the time it took to make one…If I imagine an image of the imaginary mindAnd if I focus on an unfocused dreamI’ll find you…right where I left you the first day I met youThis time not reversedNow think of me as I think of youAnd we’ll smile foreverA light worth shining in the darkest place-Kaydee
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Mar282011 by Blondie's Staff1 Comment

Dear Bentley

Pinks
Outside ForcesA relationship is a state of connectedness between two people; two meaning a couple, the sum of one plus one, me and you...etc. When other people are figured into this equation it can cause a rift, divide, or even over crowding for the initial " two" people in the relationship. There is a saying, "three is a crowd" and in a relationship, this is definitely true. This crowd could include parents, a mistress, and the most common...friends. To some people, their parents opinion of their significant other is a major deal breaker. For example, a girl's mother or father may not approve of her boyfriend, so they may try to keep them from seeing each other, make their relationship hell, or even make her stop seeing him. The "…
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Mar282011 by Blondie's Staff1 Comment

Weight Loss Failures and Success: Part IV

Neutrals
         Weight Loss Success!!Ok, so I know you have heard enough of what did NOT work for me on my weight loss journey. Now it is time for me to let you know what has worked for the last year! This is the first time in my life that I have been able to keep weight off for this long and I finally realized why I have been able to do so. It is because this whole weight loss thing has to be a LIFESTYLE change. I finally realized that I can not just "diet" because diets are something that you are on and off. I knew that in order for me to maintain the weight loss (and eventually reach my goal weight) I had to make changes with the way I live my life. So with…
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Mar282011 by Blondie's Staff2 Comments

Winter Storm

Pinks
Today I saw a familiar faceAt least I thought it was youYou walked by so fast, but I knew it was youI heard your laughI smelled your smellAnd didn’t think it was trueToday I saw a familiar faceAnd I couldn’t even speakMy hands go all sweatyKnees became too weakToday I saw a familiar face And I promise it was youI’d know your scent anywhereI knew it had to be trueTwo weeks passed me byAnd still no sight of youI should have spoke to love those daysInstead I just let you walk byNow these unfamiliar wordsAre all I have to showFor the love I thought I once knewIs lost in my heart of snow-Kaydee
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