Indifference

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contributed by Nique   Passed you by somewhere along the way…… I looked up… Looked around And I realized I was taking this trip alone….   I waited for you I held back for you I stunted my growth for you….. To encourage yours. In the end though, It’s my heart in pieces   The world’s a funny place You do your part You hold up your end of this unspoken agreement Only to find yourself alone Signing on the dotted line with no witnesses present   I hate empty words …..Empty actions even more Why allow me to fall for you If you weren’t ready to catch me? Why present those words If you weren’t ready to be responsible for them?   Those four letters have become my enemy…
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All I Ever Wanted to Say

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contributed by "An AberrantMuse" Never wanted to let you go I never wanted to make you stay Just wanted you to find yourself Hopefully you will one day You are the only person I ever wanted to stay But I needed you to feel that same way I wanted you to be the one who always wanted me to stay Clearly you did feel that way…. I just wanted you to be the one And that’s all I ever really wanted to say.
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Bringing Out The Claws

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contributed by Miss Tee   My hands (particularly my nails) have always been one of my favorite parts of my body. Thanks to our great readers and my interest in a nice set of nails, I decided to write about nail health and the latest nail trends. Nails truly can be an accessory, so we have to make sure that they are HOT! First things first, this is a health and beauty section so we definitely want to make sure we discuss the health aspect of your natural nails. Nails that are pale, white, or yellow and nails with dark lines could indicate fungal infection, disease, or sickness. It’s important to note that the above mentioned does not always mean that something is wrong, but it is important to pay attention…
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Sorrow

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contributed by Nique My sorrow is overwhelming…. It overtakes me on the oddest of days It surprises me Catches me off guard when all I want is to just be I don’t mind being unhappy at times It’s ok to be a little melancholy And I wish life would just let me have these moments Keep the sorrow I have substitutes Keep the sadness I have plenty of backups Because of you I find myself having to savor the simplest of moments just to remind myself that life is worth living I close my eyes tight five minutes before I wake up because I know once my eyes open, you’re not far away I drive in silence on my way home because I know any minute now you will surely…
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One of Life’s Many Lessons

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by Kaydee“Humble yourself before the Lord, and he will lift you up.” James 4:10 NIVLately I’ve found myself thanking God for every single thing! Even things that seem so small are a blessing from God and I feel like I can not thank him enough. This time of year people are so busy with Christmas shopping for their loved ones, forgetting about others can easily happen. Personally, when I leave my house I see the homeless and help whenever I can. It disturbs me when I can’t because I wish I could do more. Of course you don’t want to see another human being in pain or begging others for help. I just send up a prayer and hope that something great happens to improve their day. While at work earlier…
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Thoughts from a Bald Head Cutie

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contributed by Beautiful PainApparently, it has become a problem for me or any other Black woman in particular to be an independent woman; call me confused, but I thought I was being raised to learn how to survive and take care of myself. Hell, weren’t we all raised and instilled with that desire? Seems to me that being an independent Black woman is being treated as an epidemic, and quite frankly, I think more women need to fall victim to this “problem.” Honestly though, I’m a bit confused; see men sit here and complain that all they keep finding are women who are gold diggers, lazy and only want them for their money. Yet, when they find a woman that wants to spend her own money or buy her own things,…
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Make Love

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by NiqueI wanna take my timeLet me make love to you…I wanna watch my fingertips trace your skin…I want you to feel my soul through my kisses and my heart through my touchAnd I want you to know that the term “make love” doesn’t even come closeI wanna memorize every mark, every scar, and every bruiseAnd learn the location of every freckle and every dimpleAnd as we tug and pull and toss and turnI want our movements to be slow and our bodies to be patientI want to savor youBe consumed by youAnd whether it’s my hand caressing your face or my tongue tracing your collarboneI want each and every moment to speak loveScream ecstasyAnd exaggerate intimacy in the purest formI am drawn to you like a magnetOur movements always…
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The Dilema

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contributed by Sammie Jo     I’ve learned a lot about myself in the past twenty three years (Soon to be twenty four – yikes!) and one of the lessons that always sticks with me is that point blank, I want what’s bad for me. Or should I say, if it’s good for me, I don’t want it? If I’m at a restaurant, chances are I’m not going to drink water with lemon. If it’s a week night, may I have a sweet tea, please? If it’s a weekend, I’ll take a Bud Lite, por favor. If I’m hungry after a long day at work, the last thing I want is a salad with grilled chicken and a side of light ranch (Don’t you hate it when you go grab…
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A Few Holiday Health Tips

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by Miss TeeIt really is the most wonderful time of the year and while Thanksgiving has already passed, we still have at least another month of being tempted by great tasting food. If you want to try to avoid one of the typical New Year’s Resolutions that involves weight, use the following tips to get you through the rest of the holiday season and the winter months with minimal to no weight gain!Find Balance: Of course you are going to indulge in some of your favorite holiday foods, but remember to always start off with small portions. You can always go back for seconds if you are still hungry. In addition to all the great tasting not so healthy choices you make, make sure you are picking healthy choices too.…
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**Fab Mamacita**

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interviewed by KaydeeKenaya FrancisCreative, Innovative, & Motivated are just a few words to describe her! Blondie’s brings you this Fab Mamacita and her little one Ky’ree.What was your first reaction when you found out you were pregnant?When I found out I was pregnant I wasn’t really shock because I already assumed that I was going to be. But never the less I was excited!Were you using protection at the time?I’m not proud to say that I was not using protection on that particular time I conceived Ky’ree.Who was the first person you told when you discovered you were pregnant and what was the reaction of that person and others? My cousin Donisha Francis was the first person I told besides Ky’ree’s father. Donisha was happier then I was!!How did the father…
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For You

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I searched for you…in my deepest dreams and in my darkest desires….I don’t know you because I love you…I love you…..because I know youMindHeartAnd SoulFrom the passionate way in which we make loveTo the intimacy of our conversationsTo the way you look at me with an intensity that only a Scorpio can possess……I know youLoving someone….Truly loving themMeans giving them the ability to destroy you….But trusting them not to…..And I don’t forget to take notice that you trust me without questionAnd you love me without faultAnd if you can never give me anything else in lifeThis is all I will ever needBut as hard as it is to resist, I don’t get stuck in the fairytaleI know the realities that brought us togetherBecause I share them with youBut I know…
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